Meet Joey
I'm a nerd, a liberal, and a Jewish cat dad living in San Antonio
I’m a builder at heart. Whether it’s training AI models, restoring an arcade cabinet, planning an ambitious trip, or perfecting a pesto recipe, I get a lot of joy out of turning ideas into something real, memorable, and worth sharing.
I take relationships seriously. I’m looking for something with real warmth, curiosity, and momentum, a connection that makes life feel bigger.
Meet Joey
I'm a nerd, a liberal, and a Jewish cat dad living in San Antonio
I’m a builder at heart. Whether it’s training AI models, restoring an arcade cabinet, planning an ambitious trip, or perfecting a pesto recipe, I get a lot of joy out of turning ideas into something real, memorable, and worth sharing.
I take relationships seriously. I’m looking for something with real warmth, curiosity, and momentum, a connection that makes life feel bigger.
Meet Joey
I'm a nerd, a liberal, and a Jewish cat dad living in San Antonio
I’m a builder at heart. Whether it’s training AI models, restoring an arcade cabinet, planning an ambitious trip, or perfecting a pesto recipe, I get a lot of joy out of turning ideas into something real, memorable, and worth sharing.
I take relationships seriously. I’m looking for something with real warmth, curiosity, and momentum, a connection that makes life feel bigger.
What do I do for fun
DIY & Makerspace
Travel
Cooking
Entrepreneurship
Making the Good Parts Better
I’m looking for someone who makes the good parts of life even better. I want the kind of connection where we sharpen each other, widen each other’s worlds, and make it easier to take bigger swings, learn faster, and enjoy more of what life has to offer than we ever could alone.
Intentionality
Relationships don't just happen; they are built. I want a dynamic where we aren't just drifting along, but actively designing our life together and choosing each other every day.
Serious Play
I take fun seriously. Whether it’s cosplay, VR racing, or getting lost in a new city, I want a partnership that embraces adventure, curiosity, and a little ridiculousness
My Friend's Thoughts
I’d say that Joey has all the best qualities described in the ‘need myself an autistic/nerdy man’ trend. While prone to the occasional video game binge, he cooks, builds, and continuously improves himself more than anyone. And he’s one of the most straightforward communicators that I know
Max
Friend
Joey is a really genuine person; he feels confident and comfortable being himself, an endearing quality that brings the same out in others. As a person he is very creative, playful, intelligent, and handy; he can solve problems and is willing to do the hard work himself, which is awesome. He brings a lot of positive energy (happy/funny) and I enjoy being around him because he brings a joyous and playful energy.
Alex
Friend
Builder of things, fixer of problems, and an aspiring chef with a fire extinguisher always nearby. His kitchen is his happy place, you bring the wine, he'll cook! I think Joey’s a catch because he has great style, knows how to cook, and takes care of his friends. He has so much excitement for life and new adventures. Every day is so different when spending time with him (sometimes, I can’t keep up).
Kat
Friend
Joey’s always reaching out for new experiences and loves being social and doing fun activities. He knows who he is from his flaws to his strengths but is still always willing to listen and learn
Ashwin
Best Friend
I would say Joey is confident in himself and really expressive and unashamed of what he likes. He’s generous and will meet people where they’re at to make their lives easier when he can.
Rocky
Friend
I don’t admire a lot of people, but Joey is a person I admire. When I hang out with him, I universally leave motivated to be better than I was the day before both interpersonally and professionally.
Nelson
Friend
Joey is someone who tries to plan for the future to the best of his ability. He has an idea of where he wants to go in the future and will do anything to achieve it.
John
Friend
Joey is very nice and caring and passionate about things he loves.
Paige
My Sister
Knowing Joey is to feel safe in the knowledge that you have someone in your corner. Someone who is loyal, reliable, and who loves the people in his life with his whole heart. Joey is also full of useful information. If there is a topic he is passionate about, rest assured he has done the research and is ready to share it.
My Mom
Family
My Friend's Thoughts
I’d say that Joey has all the best qualities described in the ‘need myself an autistic/nerdy man’ trend. While prone to the occasional video game binge, he cooks, builds, and continuously improves himself more than anyone. And he’s one of the most straightforward communicators that I know
Max
Friend
Joey is a really genuine person; he feels confident and comfortable being himself, an endearing quality that brings the same out in others. As a person he is very creative, playful, intelligent, and handy; he can solve problems and is willing to do the hard work himself, which is awesome. He brings a lot of positive energy (happy/funny) and I enjoy being around him because he brings a joyous and playful energy.
Alex
Friend
Builder of things, fixer of problems, and an aspiring chef with a fire extinguisher always nearby. His kitchen is his happy place, you bring the wine, he'll cook! I think Joey’s a catch because he has great style, knows how to cook, and takes care of his friends. He has so much excitement for life and new adventures. Every day is so different when spending time with him (sometimes, I can’t keep up).
Kat
Friend
Joey’s always reaching out for new experiences and loves being social and doing fun activities. He knows who he is from his flaws to his strengths but is still always willing to listen and learn
Ashwin
Best Friend
Joey is someone who tries to plan for the future to the best of his ability. He has an idea of where he wants to go in the future and will do anything to achieve it.
John
Friend
I would say Joey is confident in himself and really expressive and unashamed of what he likes. He’s generous and will meet people where they’re at to make their lives easier when he can.
Rocky
Friend
I don’t admire a lot of people, but Joey is a person I admire. When I hang out with him, I universally leave motivated to be better than I was the day before both interpersonally and professionally.
Nelson
Friend
I’d describe Joey as controlled chaos. He’ll lose his wallet one minute and come up with a business idea the next. He’s intense but fun. Pushy but giving.
My Dad
Family
Knowing Joey is to feel safe in the knowledge that you have someone in your corner. Someone who is loyal, reliable, and who loves the people in his life with his whole heart. Joey is also full of useful information. If there is a topic he is passionate about, rest assured he has done the research and is ready to share it.
My Mom
Family
My Friend's Thoughts
I’d say that Joey has all the best qualities described in the ‘need myself an autistic/nerdy man’ trend. While prone to the occasional video game binge, he cooks, builds, and continuously improves himself more than anyone. And he’s one of the most straightforward communicators that I know
Max
Friend
Joey is a really genuine person; he feels confident and comfortable being himself, an endearing quality that brings the same out in others. As a person he is very creative, playful, intelligent, and handy; he can solve problems and is willing to do the hard work himself, which is awesome. He brings a lot of positive energy (happy/funny) and I enjoy being around him because he brings a joyous and playful energy.
Alex
Friend
Builder of things, fixer of problems, and an aspiring chef with a fire extinguisher always nearby. His kitchen is his happy place, you bring the wine, he'll cook! I think Joey’s a catch because he has great style, knows how to cook, and takes care of his friends. He has so much excitement for life and new adventures. Every day is so different when spending time with him (sometimes, I can’t keep up).
Kat
Friend
Joey’s always reaching out for new experiences and loves being social and doing fun activities. He knows who he is from his flaws to his strengths but is still always willing to listen and learn
Ashwin
Best Friend
I would say Joey is confident in himself and really expressive and unashamed of what he likes. He’s generous and will meet people where they’re at to make their lives easier when he can.
Rocky
Friend
I don’t admire a lot of people, but Joey is a person I admire. When I hang out with him, I universally leave motivated to be better than I was the day before both interpersonally and professionally.
Nelson
Friend
Joey is someone who tries to plan for the future to the best of his ability. He has an idea of where he wants to go in the future and will do anything to achieve it.
John
Friend
Joey is very nice and caring and passionate about things he loves.
Paige
My Sister
Knowing Joey is to feel safe in the knowledge that you have someone in your corner. Someone who is loyal, reliable, and who loves the people in his life with his whole heart. Joey is also full of useful information. If there is a topic he is passionate about, rest assured he has done the research and is ready to share it.
My Mom
Family
FAQs
I believe that the first few dates should be about chemistry and connection, not a job interview. Too often, the magic of meeting someone new gets bogged down by the necessary but unsexy checklist of "logistics."
I included this section to front-load those answers, respecting both your time and mine. By getting the binary filtering questions out of the way now—politics, pets, religion, lifestyle, and timeline, we clear the path. If you are still interested after reading this, we can skip the small talk and spend our time actually getting to know each other.
Why did you make a website instead of just using an app?
How busy are you, really?
What are your vices?
What is your ideal first date?
What are your politics?
What do you want from a relationship and when?
What is your Job?
What is all the basic info?
FAQs
I believe that the first few dates should be about chemistry and connection, not a job interview. Too often, the magic of meeting someone new gets bogged down by the necessary but unsexy checklist of "logistics."
I included this section to front-load those answers, respecting both your time and mine. By getting the binary filtering questions out of the way now—politics, pets, religion, lifestyle, and timeline, we clear the path. If you are still interested after reading this, we can skip the small talk and spend our time actually getting to know each other.
Why did you make a website instead of just using an app?
How busy are you, really?
What are your vices?
What is your ideal first date?
What are your politics?
What do you want from a relationship and when?
What is your Job?
What is all the basic info?
FAQs
I believe that the first few dates should be about chemistry and connection, not a job interview. Too often, the magic of meeting someone new gets bogged down by the necessary but unsexy checklist of "logistics."
I included this section to front-load those answers, respecting both your time and mine. By getting the binary filtering questions out of the way now—politics, pets, religion, lifestyle, and timeline, we clear the path. If you are still interested after reading this, we can skip the small talk and spend our time actually getting to know each other.
Why did you make a website instead of just using an app?
How busy are you, really?
What are your vices?
What is your ideal first date?
What are your politics?
What do you want from a relationship and when?
What is your Job?
What is all the basic info?
Great Solo, Better Together.
I like people who already have a real life of their own. I do too. The goal isn’t to complete each other, it’s to make each other’s lives richer, warmer, and more expansive. I want a relationship where we can rely on each other deeply, while still bringing our own energy, taste, ambition, and curiosity to the table.
My love languages are Acts of Service and Touch. I like being useful, whether that means fixing the wobbly table, planning the logistics of an ambitious trip, or taking over dinner when you’ve had a long week. Care, to me, is often practical. It’s making life feel lighter, warmer, and more held.
I love seeing a partner in their element. Whether you’re navigating a complex career, creating art, or just keeping your cool when things go sideways, I’m looking for someone whose strengths I can genuinely admire and learn from.
I love new projects, big ideas, and a life with some velocity to it. But I don’t want a relationship that feels like another task to manage. The best part of an ambitious life is having someone to slow down with when it matters.
I want our home to be a safe place to land. I want to make a space together where we can shut out the noise, curl up under fuzzy blankets with a cast iron cookie, and just breathe. I want us to support each other’s big goals, but I also want us to be the people we can collapse onto the couch with at the end of the day.
Great Solo, Better Together.
I like people who already have a real life of their own. I do too. The goal isn’t to complete each other, it’s to make each other’s lives richer, warmer, and more expansive. I want a relationship where we can rely on each other deeply, while still bringing our own energy, taste, ambition, and curiosity to the table.
My love languages are Acts of Service and Touch. I like being useful, whether that means fixing the wobbly table, planning the logistics of an ambitious trip, or taking over dinner when you’ve had a long week. Care, to me, is often practical. It’s making life feel lighter, warmer, and more held.
I love seeing a partner in their element. Whether you’re navigating a complex career, creating art, or just keeping your cool when things go sideways, I’m looking for someone whose strengths I can genuinely admire and learn from.
I love new projects, big ideas, and a life with some velocity to it. But I don’t want a relationship that feels like another task to manage. The best part of an ambitious life is having someone to slow down with when it matters.
I want our home to be a safe place to land. I want to make a space together where we can shut out the noise, curl up under fuzzy blankets with a cast iron cookie, and just breathe. I want us to support each other’s big goals, but I also want us to be the people we can collapse onto the couch with at the end of the day.
Great Solo, Better Together.
I like people who already have a real life of their own. I do too. The goal isn’t to complete each other, it’s to make each other’s lives richer, warmer, and more expansive. I want a relationship where we can rely on each other deeply, while still bringing our own energy, taste, ambition, and curiosity to the table.
My love languages are Acts of Service and Touch. I like being useful, whether that means fixing the wobbly table, planning the logistics of an ambitious trip, or taking over dinner when you’ve had a long week. Care, to me, is often practical. It’s making life feel lighter, warmer, and more held.
I love seeing a partner in their element. Whether you’re navigating a complex career, creating art, or just keeping your cool when things go sideways, I’m looking for someone whose strengths I can genuinely admire and learn from.
I love new projects, big ideas, and a life with some velocity to it. But I don’t want a relationship that feels like another task to manage. The best part of an ambitious life is having someone to slow down with when it matters.
I want our home to be a safe place to land. I want to make a space together where we can shut out the noise, curl up under fuzzy blankets with a cast iron cookie, and just breathe. I want us to support each other’s big goals, but I also want us to be the people we can collapse onto the couch with at the end of the day.
The hard part is over; saying hello is easy.
Sound Like a Match?
If this page resonates with you, I’d love to know why. I’m not looking for a pen pal, but I’m happy to talk long enough to figure out whether there’s something real to explore. And if you’d rather skip to actually making plans, I like that too. If you made it this far, the ball’s in your court.
The hard part is over; saying hello is easy.
Sound Like a Match?
If this page resonates with you, I’d love to know why. I’m not looking for a pen pal, but I’m happy to talk long enough to figure out whether there’s something real to explore. And if you’d rather skip to actually making plans, I like that too. If you made it this far, the ball’s in your court.
The hard part is over; saying hello is easy.
Sound Like a Match?
If this page resonates with you, I’d love to know why. I’m not looking for a pen pal, but I’m happy to talk long enough to figure out whether there’s something real to explore. And if you’d rather skip to actually making plans, I like that too. If you made it this far, the ball’s in your court.