Why Am I Doing This?
Finding the right life partner is the single most important factor in day-to-day happiness. Who you wake up next to influences your mood, your ambition, and your life trajectory more than almost anything else.
I’ve tried the apps and the usual routes. And while getting dates hasn't been the issue, the quality of those connections has. The algorithms just aren't introducing me to the kind of incredible, high-caliber people I try to surround myself with in my real life the kind of people I know you know because you are that kind of person.
I realized that my friends are the best filter I have. You know me, and you know the amazing people who aren't on my radar yet. So, I decided to stop relying on luck and start aligning the incentives. I’m changing the dating game into one I actually want to play.
How to Participate
Step 1: You think you know someone
Who might be compatible
Step 2: Make the intro
In person, text, anything unambiguously romantic
Step 3: I go on The date
I promise to go on any dates that are set up in good faith
Step 4: Win the big prize
If we get married or a little prize if we go on 3+ dates
What you win if you find my forever person
The Big Prize
If your match becomes my match, you get a full dream-vacation package. Take a look at what you could win.

2 Tickets to Anywhere on Earth
Total combined value of up to $3000
14 Nights of Hotel
Up to $250/Night
$1000 Cash
To use however you want
A Steak Dinner
$200 Gift Card to Ruth's Chris
A Bottle Of Liquor
Of your choosing up to $150
What you win if you find Someone I vibe With
The Little Prize
Just a little something to make sure you don't have to wait 3+ years before you see any reward.
A $100 Gift Card To Specs
Paid out IF we plan to continue seeing eachother after 3 dates





